Thursday, May 29, 2014

Let it Go!

Let's be realistic.  Life is far from easy.  And if it is simple for you then you must be doing nothing.  As a parent, I think everyday about the safety of my children.  I wonder if I am showing enough love and attention to make them the best men I imagine them to be.  As a student, I think about the choices I make for careers, is the decision going to make me happy?  As a wife, I ponder about how can I assist with providing for our family as well as being loving and caring to my husband.

In general, I am the type of person who wants to be there for everyone.  I want to be apart of events, family, community service, friends, fun, etc.  I love to make room for people in my life especially if they want to be apart of mine.  (There is always time.)  In my eyes, everything is important.  Life is too short to have regrets about any choices that I wish I would had done, so I do them now.  Is this easy? Hell to the N-O!  It is incredibly overwhelming.  However, it makes my life worth living.  In the end, I am just being the real me!  

Aside from that, there's the obvious - problems that get in the way.  Issues surround us with family, relationships, money, friends, just a simple word that holds so much meaning called LIFE!  I wake up each day and that alone puts a smile on my face.  Sometimes, throughout the day, Life gets difficult.  Yes, some issues may be too much to handle at the moment.  Yes, it may bring you down.  But, let's be honest…Does that get you anywhere?  A week has passed and you still are worrying about the same thing, has that made you feel any different?  Just worse.  Just like any other person, I go through turmoil’s in my life and at the moment I stress away every meaning in my body by yelling, cursing, crying, and feeling utterly helpless.  Then, the next day I wake up and realize, I was given another day.  Another opportunity, to wash away those worries, be positive, bring smiles, and make a change.  Does that get you anywhere?  Yes.  It gets you to a new place, a place of happiness and no doubts.  

Just Let it Go!